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But You Could Have Anyone!
5 Prejudices About Women Who Hire Male Escorts
The fact that men occasionally hire the company of women is far from news worthy. Of course, we’re not talking about our own husband, boyfriend, brother, father, uncle, or colleague. They would never... or would they? The fact is, one in four men pays for sex at some point in their lives. The numbers are significantly higher when we consider paying for companionship alone. Although there are several prejudices surrounding "these" men, they often go unnoticed in everyday life. The same applies to women.
Because it’s not about "these" men and women—it’s simply about people who understand the value of pleasant company, fulfilling their desires, and satisfying their needs.
Therefore, we are not only addressing the prejudices against one gender here, but also prejudices against escorts in general.
Prejudice 1: But You Could Have Anyone!
Even if a woman only needs a flutter of her eyelashes or a snap of her fingers to avoid going home alone, this is the wrong approach. The question is: Do we want that? Sure, men can be found at every corner, at every bar, and even in the supermarket. Unfortunately, though, it can be quite tedious to separate the wheat from the chaff while ensuring safety and comfort. The "sorting out" – as terrible as it sounds – takes time and nerves, often ending in stark disappointments. Being able to have anyone sounds nice, but it doesn’t mean that anyone is a good match.
Prejudice 2: Only Desperate People Hire Escorts
No. Time with male escorts is booked for a variety of reasons. As a form of holistic and new wellness, out of curiosity, as enjoyable and stimulating companions who shine in conversation, or simply to go dancing again without having to fend off pickup lines – the list of wishes and reasons is long. Furthermore, it’s not only women who hire male escorts; couples are also among the clients.
Desperation can play a role, but not in the way many might think. If a woman simply no longer wants to kiss yet another frog but still desires pleasant male company, temporary companionship can be a wonderful change and a simple solution.
Prejudice 3: Escorts Are Only About Sex
Sex may be part of the experience, just as a trip to the movies, a stroll through an art gallery, a spa day, a night on the dance floor, or a walk along the promenade can be. Hiring a male escort is about fulfilling desires, enjoying enriching company, and allowing oneself to relax. Anything goes that feels right and suits the mood. This is by no means (just) about sex.
Prejudice 4: Paying for Company Feels Strange
Every man who reaches for his wallet at every date, paying for food, entry fees, drinks, and taxis, is seen as a gentleman. When women go for a massage, manicure, or visit stylists and pay for those services, it falls under care and wellness.
So why should it feel strange to pay for emotional wellness? For adventure, excitement, or a companion who soothes the soul, boosts the ego, and catches you with strong arms when you want to let go?
The short answer is: It shouldn’t!
Say goodbye to that limiting taboo and start treating yourself and being treated. You deserve it!
Prejudice 5: A Woman Becomes Just Another Notch on the Bedpost
Have you ever entered a flirtation with the question: "So, how many people have you slept with?"
No? Why not?
If the number of past sexual partners is truly relevant, shouldn’t that question come up at the start? Why don’t we ask it?
Perhaps because we’re not genuinely interested in the answer. Perhaps because we fear the counter-question. Perhaps because the number simply doesn’t matter.
What truly counts is the feeling someone conveys to us. Exclusive male companions have the explicit goal of fulfilling wishes and dreams, satisfying desires, and cherishing you. They use charm, style, and empathy—not cheap pickup lines. They are not on the hunt for the next notch on the bedpost, but on a mission to give you unforgettable moments. They are certainly safer and much better than the seemingly charming guy who spins tales today only to reveal himself as a trophy collector tomorrow, setting you up for false hopes and disappointment.
You don’t need that...
Hiring a companion is often associated with many negative aspects and is laden with numerous prejudices. Step away from these stubborn perspectives. Occasionally, everyone needs to let go. To feel safe and cherished or passionately desired. Sometimes, it’s necessary to consciously treat yourself well.
Don’t let the urgently needed soak for your soul or the essential company that empowers you and strengthens your resilience be tarnished. Because in doing so, you have a lot more than most others. You take care of your satisfaction and happiness instead of clinging to frustrating prejudices. That’s something we all need much more of.
Author Jessika Mueller
